Silence is Golden



Good Morning Parents!


Something kind of miraculous hit me this morning. The dang peanut gallery! It's so hard to realize that sometimes if you don't fire back, people tend to calm down. Which is really hard because you really just want to knock some peoples dentures right out! Excuse my hostility haha. But the good thing is I've just moved on with life and really focused on my family and my kids. I'm so excited to spend time with them and watch them grow everyday. The little stuff I just can't let get to me anymore you know? The harassment, the nonsense. I just go to work, come home and take care of me and mines. That's the most anyone can do right? I appreciate the relationships I have with the moms involved in my life, I appreciate that lack of hostility during exchanges and text messages. It's nice to know that hostility is not normal, at least to the extent it's gone. I still don't want to talk about anything regarding court because of the steps being taken right now so I'm not actively ignoring your emails and questions I'm just trying to keep some things private right now so when they do blow up people are like "oh crap. they weren't joking". no. we weren't. We also have a family reunion coming up at the end of May that I'm super excited for! I love family get togethers. I'm also running for Crohns in Philly on May 21st which is super important to me. Brianna's mom has battled with this almost her entire life and I see her struggle every single day and running in this makes me feel like someone can make a difference to help someone suffering. It's a terrible disease and really painful! So if you don't have anything to do come and hang out! We've finally hammered down details for our family photo shoot which is exciting, all of our dresses are bought and ready to go! Can't wait to see how they turn out and update all of the pictures in the house :)So now it's time to really focus on being silent and not responding to the negativity. Eventually whoever is hating realizes they're not going to ruin your life and that's enough from the peanut gallery! If you give no response, if you move on with your life and ignore it, they really do stop! And that's kind of enlightening. If you don't like my blog, stop googling me! duh! Nobody is forcing anyone to read anything that I'm writing. My followers enjoy my life and what's happening in it. When everything is set with a publisher it will all eventually come out in my book. Life seems to be settling down and relaxing a bit, no more drama or nonsense :) So now it's off to work to enjoy hump day and get to Friday quicker! Everyone enjoy your day!


Kristen